The note that changed my speech
A kind anonymous message corrected my mispronunciation during a guest lecture, allowing me to apologize and connect better with my audience. This experience highlighted how honest, safely delivered feedback can prevent awkwardness and help us grow. Sometimes, small gestures make a difference in how we learn and interact.
YouI’d been giving guest lectures for years, and I prided myself on connecting with every audience. Last month, I was speaking at a leadership seminar and repeatedly mentioned one of the organizers, Neha — except I pronounced it “Nee-ha” instead of “Nay-ha.”
I had no idea I was getting it wrong. No one corrected me, and I kept going, completely unaware. During a break, I checked my phone and saw an anonymous message sent through Honestli. It was short, kind, and direct: “Just a quick note — Neha’s name is pronounced ‘Nay-ha.’ Thought you’d want to know!”p
I felt a wave of embarrassment, but also relief. Thanks to the anonymous tip, I was able to correct myself in the second half of my talk and even apologize publicly. Neha’s warm smile afterward said it all — she appreciated the effort.
That small, anonymous message saved me from further awkwardness and showed me the power of honest feedback when it’s given safely and kindly.